Living Recklessly Abandoned to Christ, without care or regard for consequences. Never holding back.
Friday, December 29, 2006
Is There a Doctor in the House?
This comes at the end of a banner week at the Gilmer house. I ended Christmas day with a stomach bug. Two days later, I was bitten in the eye by Maggie. I was lying on the floor near where she was playing and she accidentally took my eye for the new rope toy Emily gave her for Christmas. It really wasn’t bad and in the grand scheme of things it could have been a lot worse. I am a now beautiful sight with one puffy red swollen eye and a limp. At least they are on opposite sides of my body to balance each other out. Otherwise we have had a good week. Will received a Star Wars game for Christmas that is keeping us well entertained. Hope the end of 2006 is better for you!
Saturday, December 23, 2006
Maligayang Pasko
Merry Christmas from the Gilmers!
Hope you are enjoying a wonderful Christmas! We are spending Christmas Eve making cookies and going to a Christmas Eve service. Tomorrow, we will spend the day at home as a family. Below is a video I made of some sights in the Philippines set to one of the most famous Filipino Christmas songs. The song is called "Pasko na Sinto Ko" which means It's Christmas now my love. The words in Tagalog are printed below. A lot of the pictures around Manila and Antipolo were taken by my dad when he was here. Interspersed are pictures of Christmas lights here in the PI. I didn't take all of them. I hope you enjoy our Christmas gift!
Allan, Ginger, Emily and Will
Pasko Na Sinta Ko
Pasko na sinta ko,
Hanap-hanap kita
Bakit nagtatampo't nilisan ako.
Kung mawawala ka,
SA piling ko sinta
Paano ang paskongAlay ko sa'yo.
Sayang sinta,
Ang sinumpaan atPagtitinginang tunay;
Nais mo bang kalimutang ganap,
Ang ating suyuan at galak.
Kung mawawala ka,
SA piling ko sinta
Paano ang paskong
Alay ko sa'yo
Kung mawawala ka,
SA piling ko sinta
Paano ang paskong
Alay ko sa'yo...
Sayang sinta,
Ang sinumpaan atPagtitinginang tunay;
Nais mo bang kalimutang ganap,
Ang ating suyuan at galak
Kung mawawala ka,
SA piling ko sinta
Paano ang paskong
Alay ko sa'yo...
Friday, December 22, 2006
My How They've Grown!
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Wet Dry Market
Today, I thought I would share some pictures from my trip with Pop to the wet dry Market here in Antipolo. I don’t do a whole lot of shopping here because the fish smell about does me in. Emily and Will hate the smell and also seeing all the meat hanging. I am more comfortable shopping at the local grocery store, Shopwise. It is similar to grocery stores in the states. So boring missionary that I am, I stick with the familiar. If you are ever out our way though and want to take a trip to the market, I will be glad to take you there. You, like Pop, may decide that the grocery store is the place for us! By the way, my Mom opted to stay home and get some things done at the house.
Thursday, December 14, 2006
Em's Christmas play
Christmas Parties
Thursday, Ling had a Christmas party and lunch for her ladies bible study group. She has 16 ladies from the nearby squatter area that she ministers to and disciples every Thursday morning. They began with a time of Thanksgiving. Each woman got up and thanked God for what He had done in her life this year. It was an emotional time as many of them have had a tough year. Many of the families are with out work and income. There is the mother of 6 whose husband is out of work. She supports her family by cooking and cleaning for $2 a day. There were quite a few women who had lost husbands this past year. One of whom was found dead in our neighbors' yard. Another, whose husband died, is supporting her family by selling food out of their home. She makes barely enough to survive. There were hard times that the ladies were thankful they had gotten through, but also joyful times. One of the ladies had been battered by her husband for years. The Bible Study began to pray for a change in him and the situation turned around. Allan gave our Christmas greetings and thanks in Tagalog and spoke for just a minute about the hope we have in Christ. It was so beautiful and perfect for the situation. There weren’t many dry eyes in the room when he was done. These women truly know what it is like to rely on the hope we have in Christ.
We were invited to join in all the festivities, but we decided only to drop by for a little while. Since Allan is the doc, we, including Ling, decided the women wouldn’t feel able to “cut loose”. I don’t think it would have mattered though. When we left there was an intense game going on. The women were paired up in 2s and “dancing” with a tomato between their foreheads. They had to keep the tomato from dropping. There was much laughter and merriment. I think they might have gotten a kick out of Al joining in. Ling had many games and prizes for the winners. I think next year she will have to organize the entertainment for our clinic staff party.
Today, I am off to the Elementary school’s Christmas program. It should be very entertaining. Will is excited because he only has to go to school a half day (much to em’s dismay since she has to go all day) and his friend Sam is coming home with him. Tomorrow night Emily will go to her first Middle School Christmas Banquet. She can’t wait. I have made her a long skirt out of Christmas fabric to go with a sleeveless red shirt she has. In the States, we have always had many Christmas clothes--sweaters, dresses, and sweatshirts, but she just didn't have any Christmas clothes suitable for the tropics.
Monday, December 11, 2006
Creepy Crawlies
No sooner had the worm problem been conquered, then we had an infestation of a different sort that is also common here. Friday morning, a friend called me to let me know her daughter had lice and since she and Em had been together I might be on the look out. Emily walked in the door after school scratching her head and sure enough there was lice. This is so common among the Filipino kids and MKs that they don't even stay home from school. I had the privilege of combing lice out of Em's hair Friday night. Mimi and Pop, while not concerned, really didn't want to have the honor of de-lousing their granddaughter. Em didn't have too many and no eggs that I could see so hopefully I got it all. No one else has shown any signs, but I did feel the urge to scratch my head Friday night.
I always like to have a picture with the blog, but even if I had a picture of the lice or the worms I don't think you would want to see it. I am including a picture my mom took of our precious Maggie looking over the Christmas greenery on our stairs. She is so cute, but she is really enjoying the Christmas decorations too much!
Sunday, December 10, 2006
Time for Goodbye
After church, we made a little stop at Starbucks with some friends while we waited for the mall to open. We enjoyed chatching up with them. At the mall, we accomplished some errands and found the Christmas presents for the clinic staff. We then headed off to meet 2 other families for lunch. We had a great time visiting and chatting. Emily's PE teacher was one of our lunch companions and he brought us a special gift....Krispy Kreme Doughnuts! Just this month the first Krispy Kreme doughnut shop has opened in the Philippines. It is down in Makati, the business district, near where he goes to church. Ahh, how the Gilmers love Krispy Kreme! It was a wonderful surprise and helped soothe a couple of down kids! Thanks Tom!
After lunch, we decided to go to the movies. We went to see The Nativity. We really enjoyed it. If you haven’t seen it I recommend it for your holiday viewing. After buying some dog food and bread we finally made it back home about 5:30. What a busy full day! We needed it. We took this picture just outside the movie theater. Everything was so festive and nice for Christmas!
After a snack supper, Emily finally broke down and the tears began to fall. We snuggled up together and I just let her cry it out. Will joined us and we talked about how wonderful our time together had been. Our day ended on a happy note. Thankfully, the next few weeks are busy as we finish out the school quarter and get ready for Christmas.
Sunday, December 03, 2006
Another Typhoon
Schools and businesses in the Manila area were closed Thursday and Friday, but the kids were already out of school for some local and national holidays. We were supposed to be leaving for a short trip to the beach Thursday morning, but Will has been sick off and on for the last 2 weeks, so we decided at the last minute not to go. The Lord really protected us because we would have been in the direct path of the Typhoon. The last place I want to be trapped is at the beach, on another island, during a major typhoon.
The damage to Manila is minimal. We lost power for about 18 hours due to a transformer blowing. We were without water for 2 days, but since we had only had water for about 8 hours since Monday, it was nothing new. Water was restored on Saturday about lunchtime.
With the loss of water, power, and typhoon prep, my parents are getting a good taste of what our life here is like. So far, the only thing they seem to really dislike is the traffic, but who doesn't. My dad wrote in a recent email: "The traffic here makes Atlanta rush hour traffic a piece of cake. The roads are full of buses, jeepneys, motor bikes, motor bikes with a side passenger car, and of course the normal cars and trucks. The traffic is either stopped or moving at a slow pace. The distance we traveled one way last Saturday was about 30 miles or less (everything here is in metric). It took us over 1 1/2 hours." I think they will enjoy getting home to the open roads of Alabama and Georgia!
Thursday, as we were waiting for the bad weather to arrive, we took Emily and Will and the Brewer kids out to lunch and bowling. Allan was the high scorer of the day, followed closely by Pop. We had a great time and for once we had a camera at the bowling alley, not only one camera but 2. Below is a picture of the bowlers. (minus me the picture taker) Mimi decided not to bowl. She wandered the mall a bit and had a great time window shopping and buying a few things.
Wednesday, November 29, 2006
O Christmas Tree!
Manila American Military Cemetery
Tuesday, November 28, 2006
Intramuros
We were excited to be able to go and visit Intramuros at this time. On Friday and Saturday nights in Nov and Dec, they are having "A Walk Back in Time" with a theater in the round play about the colonial history of Intramuros. We arrived early and walked around the old city. We didn't have nearly enough time to see things though. We spent so much time at Fort Santiago. Will especially loved climbing all over and through the old canons and barracks. He was disappointed that the dungeons were gated and he couldn’t go into them. We saw the cell where the Filipino national hero, Rizal was held before his execution. We also saw a memorial cross marking a mass grave of 600 Filipino and American prisoners of war who died at the end of WWII.
After walking through parts of the city and tromping around the fort for a while, we went to the ruins of the old San Ingelsia church. The streets were lit up with a Filipino Christmas lights called Parols. The evening was cool and breezy and we sat under some festive tents and lights to eat dinner. We had our choice from 4 restaurants from the countries that were influential during the colonial time-Spanish, Filipino, Chinese, and Indian. Allan and my dad decided to go with Spanish food. They had shrimp and sausage paella, calamari, and flan. Mimi, the kids and I decided to have a shawarma which is an India wrap similar to a Greek gyro. It was yummy! For dessert, we had Puto Bongbong--a Filipino sticky rice available only at Christmas. We were entertained during dinner by a group singing a kundiman which is a style of old traditional Tagalog love songs.
After dinner it was time for the theater presentation. The cast of the play came in a procession down the road to begin the play before moving us into the ruins of the church. It was a great presentation of the early history of the Philippines and gave us a new insight into the culture. It was very well done and we all enjoyed it. We also enjoyed seeing all the Christmas lights down by Manila Bay.
Monday, November 27, 2006
Happy Thanksgiving—belated!
Thursday, the kids went to school because, of course, Thanksgiving is not a Filipino holiday. Mom and I spent some time in the kitchen preparing for dinner. It was a very relaxed preparation since our meal wasn’t until evening. By 3:00pm the kitchen was filled with the homey, fall scents of turkey and pumpkin pie. It was cozy and warm and really knocked the chill off our 89 degree humid weather. We were joined for Thanksgiving dinner by our neighbors, the Brewers. The adults enjoyed talking and visiting late into the evening, while the kids ran around inside and out and had a great time being kids! Will’s new puppy, Maggie, loved the scrappy turkey leftovers. We had such a good time that the only picture we took was of the "kiddie" table. All in all it was a near perfect day! Much better than Thanksgiving last year when it was just the 4 of us and I got teary eyed at the table because we were away from family.
Friday, November 24, 2006
Pictures Pictures Pictures!
http://www.philippinemission.com/FamilyFun.html
New pictures are under Mimi and Pop Visit and Faith Academy. Soon to follow will be Sights around Manila. Check back again for more pics on Mimi and Pop's visit because I will be adding more soon.
Monday, November 20, 2006
The Adventure Continues!
One thing Pop has had a hard time adjusting to is the driving. Traffic in the PI is crazy and it can also be a little nerve racking. After a few rides in the front seat, Pop decided he would just sit in the back, that is until just he and I went to school on Thursday to pick up the kids and saw a trike carrying a small refrigerator. We discussed how we wish we had the camera to catch occurrences like that. Pop decided then and there he was going to be the official front seat photographer. I hope we see some more interesting things on our drives and we can share the pictures with you.
Friday we went to school to see the Elementary school International Parade with music provided by the 6th grade band. Emily was excited to play in her first marching band parade. It was great fun! We also stayed and went to the Elementary chapel. Each grade gave a presentation about the continent they have spent the last month studying and then they prayed for that continent.
Friday night, the middle school bands and choir put on their Christmas concert. It was great to see how much the 6th grade band had improved since last year when they were the 5th grade beginner band. Emily enjoyed performing and showing off just a little for her grandparents.
Mimi and Pop are now of with Allan at the clinic. I wish I was there with them, but Will is home with a fever and vomiting. Hope he is better soon. I hate for him to feel so bad when he has Mimi and Pop here to play with.
Wednesday, November 15, 2006
Mimi and Pop are here!
Monday was a busy day for Mimi and Pop. They began their day with a trip to Faith Academy. It is International Week at the Elementary School and they began the week with an invocation and a parade of nations. This year there are students and teachers from 14 different nations. There are 65 students from the US followed closely by South Korea with 55 students. Will enjoyed waving to his grandparents as he marched with the other American students behind the American flag to the national anthem.
After leaving Faith, I took Mimi and Pop to the grocery store. We went to pick up just a couple items and look around. We had a good time exploring the fruit and veggie section. I bought a pomelo for Pop to try. It is a fruit similar to a grapefruit, but sweeter. I think he will really like it. We also bought some guava and chayote for them to try. In the freezer section, I let Pop pick out some ice cream for dinner. I told him he could try any of the uniquely Filipino flavors like corn, queso, corn and cheese, ube, or buco fruit salad, but he chose Vanilla Marble—good choice!
In the afternoon, Allan called from the clinic to invite Mimi and Pop to accompany him on a house call in a nearby squatter settlement. So on their first day in country, they went with Allan and Ling Ling into one of the poor areas near our home. Mimi enjoyed taking pictures of the kids they saw. The kids had fun showing off for Mimi’s camera and showing her some of the street games they play. They gave Mimi a high sign of respect by blessing her. This is where a Filipino child takes your hand and touches it to their bowed forehead.
Monday was also Pop’s 69th birthday. It was great to be able to celebrate that day with him. We invited our neighbors over after dinner for a “party” of cake and ice cream out on the lanai. It was a great way to end their first day here in the Philippines!
Saturday, November 11, 2006
Flying over!
Maggie!
Shortly after letting his feelings be known, we knew of a puppy looking for a home. So we now have a 2 month old girl golden retriever that has come to live with us. Will has named her Maggie and she is precious. We are loving and hating the puppy stage. WAGs was 4 months old when we adopted him, so we missed this stage. Maggie is cute, funny, and trouble! It's like having a toddler again. As much as we love her, we miss WAGs alot. Her mannerisms remind us so much of him. We had been told that Goldens were similar in temperment and mannerisms and it is true. One thing is she has already taken to "WAGs pool" (you can see the little fountain from our front yard in the picture below). She loves the water just like he did!
Wednesday, November 01, 2006
Happy Halloween!
Last night though was the American holiday of Halloween. This day is not really celebrated here, although the checkers at the grocery store were all dressed like pirates yesterday. I guess that shows some of the American influence. Since the kids were out of school today, we decided to have dinner with our neighbors last night and let the kids stay up late. For dinner, we had a great meal that is a common love between the 2 families--tacos. I had made a cake shaped like a pumpkin complete with orange frosting. After dinner, Emily and Will and the other kids watched a movie and then played with legos. Mary, the mom next door, happened to find some candy to bag up so at about 9:30 the kids dressed up and ran next door to "trick-or-treat". Since the door bell is out side the gates and wall that surrounds the 2 houses, the 4 of them just chimed "ding dong". It was really cute. They also took the dogs along for treats. I was surprised that Will didn't try to dress WAGs up too. It was a good night and a fun time.
The next American holiday we celebrate, Thanksgiving, my parents will be here-- less than 2 weeks until their visit!
On a humorous side note, just before we sat down to dinner last night, the dad from next door commented to Will that he had dressed in a costume for our Halloween meal. Will looked down in confusion at his camo shirt and pants and commented-"These are just my clothes. I wear them everyday." He's right. Will is still the same. If you came to see us in the PI, you would find him wearing some type of army get up in the yard every afternoon.
About Us
- The Gilmers
- Allan & Ginger Gilmer, Philippine Mission P.O. Box 2035 Antipolo, Rizal 1870 Philippines